Ditch the loser. Too harsh? Not really. Especially if you have been suffering for quite some time and have started talking about your pain with a wide grin on your cheeky, pimpled face. The sad news is that you know you have let yourself go. You stopped working out. You do not go to the salon as regularly. And your current idea of a spa treatment is in the lonely privacy of your bedroom in the company of your now insect-repellent comforter that was last laundered some six months back.
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Here is the news that the more intelligent side of your brain has been echoing for months (or is it years?) now: You are in a bad relationship. And if what you have cannot be called a relationship at this point, that is an even worse situation – and he is still bad news.
Now that you know, here are the surefire steps to ditch the loser, free yourself, and get your life back.
- Name the target. Yes, that guy. The first step always begins with identifying the problem.
- If you feel that everything is his fault, you are right. Embrace that thought.
- Focus on his faults and everything from him or by him that may have even the slightest role in your acne breakouts, weight gain, skin sagging, and related damages.
- Look at the mirror and imagine how much more beautiful you would look without all the negativity you have incurred from this !@#$%^&*
- Now get your phone and take a picture of yourself on this day when you have decided to take control of the situation. Let that pix serve as a reminder whenever you falter.
- Take control further by sending him one last text message ending with, “This is our last communication. Do not attempt to contact me by any means.”
- Remove all text messages between the two of you.
- Remove his phone number. Put his name on reject list.
- Delete him from all your social media accounts.
- Refuse to take his calls for a total of 3 months.
Warning:
Make sure to follow all the 10 steps provided. Each one has been tested to work hand in hand with the others. Do not attempt to dilute the strength of each step by replacing drastic actions with milder ones (i.e., reject instead of block). Failure to follow the steps to the letter will result in the constant repetition of your pain.
On the other hand, your compliance will very soon lead you to a more fulfilling relationship with a much more loving and sensible guy. Generally, it takes less than three months to happen. In case it is with the same person, all you have to do is to save his number again. If you get back with him in 3 months or more after applying all the 10 steps religiously, you can relax knowing that you will be happier this time.
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